Seduction Tactics: How To Turn Your Flaws Into Strengths
By John Alexander
Author, “How to Become an Alpha Male”

Are you a guy with a high-pitched voice? Of maybe you’ve got a face only a mother could love?

Well, whatever it is, if you’re worried and upset about your physical flaws, which prevent you from attracting women, then I’ve got some good news for you.

Not only can you eliminate those flaws, you can turn them into your advantage. I’ll explain how by bringing up an example of three guys who were very successful players in their day.

So here’s a trivia question for you. What do Steve Tyler of Aerosmith, the late rapper Eazy-E, and Curly from the Three Stooges all have in common?

The answer is they all had voices so high that if they had wanted to, they could have talked to someone on the phone and that person wouldn’t have known they were speaking to a man.

It would have been simple for all three men to have hung their heads in shame and turn into beta males who never got laid and never even could get a girl to talk to them.

In fact, I’ve coached a lot of men who have limiting beliefs when it comes to things like their voice, their looks, their genetics, etc. You name the trait, and there’s always somebody who uses that trait as a negative belief, which sabotages their chances at success with women.

However, despite their high voices, Tyler, Eazy-E, and Curly were all masters of a simple technique that turned that big flaw into a big trademark that made them even more attractive to women.

It’s a simple technique that I learned when I studied Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), and it will help you as tremendously as it did all three of those men.

In order to develop the confidence of my students, I have them learn and apply this concept. The concept is called reframing.

Here’s how reframing works. Basically, you take every negative belief that you have and turn it into a positive, uplifting question. Do it like this:

1. “I feel bad about my voice” becomes “How can I use my unique voice as my own trademark that sets me apart from other guys?” (That’s what Tyler, Eazy-E, and Curly all did.)

2. “My face is pockmarked from acne” becomes “How is my face totally awesome? How can my lack of natural good looks actually help me with women?”

3. “I’m too short” becomes “How can I height to my advantage?”

As you ponder your new, reframed questions in your mind, your brain will come up with answers to them.

For example, you might find that it’s to your advantage to not be a “pretty boy.” Women expect good-looking guys to talk to them, so when you’re displaying the confidence to talk with them, their guards will be down.

They won’t expect you to try to pick them up. That gives you a window of opportunity to display your confident, alpha male personality.

Being short can allow you to gain rapport much easier with girls than taller guys can. Tall guys have a psychological communication barrier a lot of the time because they’re literally speaking to a lot of girls (who tend on average to be shorter than guys) from a different level.

So remember, it’s not your flaws that get in your way. It’s your limiting beliefs that do.

Your ugly face doesn’t get in your way of meeting women. Instead it’s your belief about your face, which interferes with your inner sense of confidence. That lack of confidence is the thing that women pick up on.

For a woman to be attracted to a guy, the man’s confidence level is one of the most important traits that he can have. You can become comfortable with yourself by turning your flaws from weaknesses into traits that set you apart from the bland, ordinary guys.

So I want you to stop reading after this, get out a pen (or open a blank document in your word processor) and write out your negative beliefs. Then write positive, uplifting questions about how to turn those flaws into good things.

When you become happy and comfortable with all your traits, through the technique of reframing, you’ll become unstoppable with your self-confidence. Gain that kind of confidence, and you’ll magnetically attract girls to you.

John Alexander is author of How to Become an Alpha Male … a seduction success guide for men. Learn to develop the confidence and mindset that make women lust for you.

Seduction 101: Speaking with Body Language
By John Alexander
Author, “How to Become an Alpha Male”

An estimated 67% to 93% of human communication (according to university researchers) is non-verbal, and your body language reveals your internal emotional state. Whether someone’s parents just died, or whether they just got promoted to CEO… you can tell by observing their body language.

So, as a man who tries to pick up and seduce women, you should be mindful of what you’re communicating non-verbally.

Body language consists of the following:

- Your movements. They should be nonchalant, as if you’re so fabulously successful that there’s rarely a reason for you to rush nor try to impress anybody. Move through the world doing what you want and assuming that others will follow.

- The displacement of your body. Your arms and legs should be spread out. Don’t be afraid to take up space.

- Your voice. It should have a calm, soothing, and commanding effect. Don’t speak too fast or strain your voice.

- Your face. Keep your facial muscles relaxed. Never tense your jaw, and only rarely should you frown or wrinkle your brow.

- Your shoulders. Keep them relaxed like they’d be if you just got a massage. Don’t raise them up like a nervous person.

I would even go as far as to say that you body language is more important than anything you say, because if your body language doesn’t match what you say, then you won’t succeed with women.

You see, if you tell a woman stories that convey your confidence, but at the same time you slump over and fold your arms, then you come across as fake.

I’ve picked up women before merely through the use of my body language. For example, a couple months ago I was at a coffee shop that I frequent, lounging on the couch, arms spread out, with my feet up on the table.

The mindset I had was that I felt so comfortable that it was as if I were in my home lounging on my own couch. It was as if I owned the coffee shop.

The net result was that a girl sitting near me put down her book and started engaging me in random small talk.

(Whenever an attractive girl you don’t know starts a random conversation with you, you should ALWAYS assume that she’s attracted to you. This is because women generally won’t risk the whole male-female dynamic, especially with a stranger, unless they feel attraction.)

The conversation went on for awhile, I got her number, called her that night, and a few days later we met and after several hours went to her place, where I spent the night. (We finally had sex in the morning.)

The bottom line though is that she became initially attracted to me and approached me because of my body language.

Now, of course body language isn’t enough. You also must have an internal alpha male mindset that’s consistent with your body language.

But make no mistake about it… if your body language conveys confidence, then your mood will also shift to become more confident. And have you ever noticed how when you walk with a spring in your step, you feel more upbeat?

Conversely, when you cast your eyes down and drag your feet, you feel depressed. So your mindset also follows the body language that you adopt.

So, in conclusion, be an alpha male with your mindset and your body language. Be in a woman’s personal space and be sexual and interested in her, but at the same time don’t be needy or desperate for her attention. Just be comfortable and enjoy yourself.

And when your body language conveys that, it means you’ll later be comfortable and enjoying yourself… with the woman.

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John Alexander is author of “How to Become an Alpha Male”, a seduction
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language that attracts women like a magnet.
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