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The Tactical Power Of Covert Persuasion

Posted on 20 February 2008 by admin

The Tactical Power Of Covert Persuasion
by Kevin Hogan, Expert in Selling and Persuasion

What do YOU want them to think?!

At least a dozen times I’ve asked hundreds of people in an audience to look around a room identifying everything that is brown and instruct them to remember what they see because this is a very important experiment.

Then I ask everyone to close their eyes.

Everyone knows where everything brown is because each of their brains have been instructed to focus and find all brown…and they have been told that this is an important task.

“Now, point to something green.”

No one can do it.

Those that point somewhere inevitably fail.

No doubt you may have participated in this fascinating experiment in the past as well.

The Fascinating Human Brain

It’s an amazing thing about the human brain. We can retain an unbelievable amount of information.

But in this case, we can’t remember where *anything* green might be…

We weren’t told to look for it…

Imagine your friend teaches a grade school class and little Billy is acting up in the back. Your friend tells a fellow teacher about the experience.

“The kid is always acting up. He’s probably ‘ADD’ and I wish he was on his way out. He’s driving me nuts.”

“Huh. I guess I’ve never seen it in his behavior. He can be talkative but he never misbehaves in my class and he’s a pretty sharp kid. Sometimes even helpful to the other students.”

Your friend looks at the fellow teacher as if he has lost his marbles.

Your friend will not likely ever see the student in any way other than he has and the other teacher will likely not change his view that the student is a pretty good kid.

Here’s what happens when the second teacher visits the first teacher’s class to observe…

Weeks later, the teachers agree to exchange notes on the student again. They’ve both retained their original opinion.
Today, the second teacher decides to sit in with your friend in his class. He sits at the back of the room and takes careful experimental notes on the young boys behavior noting anything that diverges from sitting and being quiet.
At the end of the day, the student had contributed four answers to questions for the class, spoke out of turn once, helped another student once, stopped an argument another time and laughed ridiculously loud once at a joke another student told.
“Did you see him today? The kid was back at it again. He was smarting off and disrupting the class again.”
“Actually, he was pretty well behaved.”

“You’ve got to be kidding!”

“No. I recorded everything he did today.”

Your friend looked at the record and simply couldn’t believe they were talking about the same child.

Your friend saw what he expected while the actual record showed a very different picture of what really happened.

KEYPOINT:
You remember what you expect to see.
And don’t worry, your friend isn’t crazy…. He also looked for everything that was brown and saw what was brown…. and nothing else.

As soon as you have an attitude, opinion or emotional connection to something or someone else, you immediately filter your awareness of that stimulus through those attitudes, opinions and emotions.

It’s how the brain operates. It’s how the brain must operate or it would see something new and have to start from scratch analyzing what “is” and what causes what attitudes, emotions and opinions.

That would be incredibly time consuming and cause the destruction of the human race. (I’ll come back to this.)

Unfortunately as helpful as this “filtering” is in general, it creates a very interesting life for each of us.

FACT ONE: We see what we expect to see.
FACT TWO: We don’t see what we don’t expect see.
FACT THREE: We see what we are told to look for…and not much else.

This week we found out something even more incredible. When a person drinks a drink of alcohol something amazing happens when it comes to people seeing what you want them to see…

FACT FOUR: People who have had just one drink lose their ability to discriminate reality even more profoundly.
They REALLY see what they expect to see. They really feel what they expect to feel. They really see what they are told to see.
Here is the research.

After you read this section, I’ll give you some tips on how to utilize this information in a persuasive context on the internet and in face to face communication.

People who were given a simple visual task while mildly intoxicated were twice as likely to have missed seeing the person in a gorilla suit than were people who were not under the influence of alcohol.

The study, appearing in the current issue of The Journal of Applied Cognitive Psychology, is the first to show visual errors caused by “inattentional blindness” are more likely to occur under the influence of alcohol. This phenomenon occurs when important, but unexpected, objects appear in the visual field but are not detected when people are focused on another task, according to Seema Clifasefi, a postdoctoral psychology researcher at the University of Washington.

While the research, a pilot study, did not test driving aptitude, the study has strong implications for people operating motor vehicles after consuming alcohol, according to Clifasefi, who is affiliated with the UW’s Addictive Behaviors Research Center.
“Driving requires our full attention. We need to perceive information from a variety of sources when we are driving, but alcohol reduces our ability to multi-task. So we focus on one thing at the expense of everything else,” she said.

“Say you have been at a party and are driving home after having a couple of drinks. You don’t want to be stopped for speeding, so you keep eyeing the speedometer. Our research shows that you will miss other things going on around you, perhaps even a pedestrian trying to cross the street.”

In the study, 46 adults ranging in age from 21 to 35 were brought into a bar-like setting. Half of them were given drinks containing alcohol to bring their blood alcohol level up to 0.04 — half the legal level for being drunk in most states. The other half were given drinks containing no liquor.

After the volunteers had their blood alcohol levels measured by a breath test, they were taken to a computer monitor and asked to watch a 25-second film clip. The clip showed people playing with a ball and the volunteers were told to count the number of times the ball was passed from one person to another. In the middle of the clip a person dressed in a gorilla suit appeared, walked among the players, beat its chest and then walked away.

Afterward, the subjects were asked if they saw the gorilla. Just 18 percent of the drinkers said they noticed the gorilla while 46 percent of the sober subjects indicated they saw the gorilla. The research was based on older research without the involvement of alcohol. The results were just as impressive. People simply don’t see that gorilla. It SEEMS impossible, but what seems ridiculous is EXACTLY how our brain works in reality.

And it’s a bit unnerving when you think about it!

TWENTY FIVE SECONDS! That’s it. And in the middle of that 25 seconds, a gorilla shows up on the screen beating his chest and if you’ve had a drink, you didn’t see it. More than half of those who didn’t have a drink didn’t see the gorilla.
The power of focused attention via suggestion is absolutely shocking.

Applications:
The applications are far reaching and can be applied to almost any persuasive setting. The covert nature of the behavior is obvious.

When you are writing copy or making a sales presentation it is VERY IMPORTANT to encode your targeted information into your client’s awareness.

If you write for your website, make sure you tell people what to look for early on. ALL THE BROWN!!! Make sure you have not led them into some other world where they are asked to see green.

If you tell them that you have a money-making opportunity and then offer facts to support that. Talk about unrelated things and they will be filtered out making a story that is incomplete, incoherent and entirely forgettable.

“What we’re looking for are ways to get this project done without spending tons of money on waste like x, y, and z. Our competitor isn’t interested in that, and whatever you ultimately decide, those factors can’t be forgotten…”

That client will be listening for x, y and z…and ways to get the project done, so you better do something with those four pieces…because that’s what they are going to be filtering for…and what they will be hearing!

This works in text and face to face communication.

Whatever you direct the person’s mind to is where they will be primed to pay attention to. Very much like a magician.

One worthwhile additional bonus:

If you say something negative about your competitor, your client WILL remember your competitor. It may not be good or bad…but they’ll remember …and if you haven’t put a greater degree of emotion on your own product…they won’t remember yours at all…. NEVER mention a competitor or anything about them, except in the context noted above..

One final suggestion: Write down the facts and keypoints from this article on a piece of paper and keep it on your desk for a week. Just one week. Refer to it every time you write copy or review your sales materials and presentation strategies.

Many covert persuasion techniques will ever yield the results this one will!

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Power of Persuasion: The Motivating Factor

Posted on 09 February 2008 by admin

Power of Persuasion: The Motivating Factor
by Michael A. Thomas

Persuasion is the art of motivation. Every human action is driven by something or someone. As a person of power, your mission is to find out what motivates others, and then to provide that motivation for them. People’s motivations stem from two major principles: the desire for gain, and the fear of loss.

The desire for gain motivates people to want more of the things they value in life. They want more success: more money, more health, more influence, more love, and more happiness. Our wants as humans are limited only by our own imagination. It doesn’t matter how much a one has, they still want more. When you can show people how they can get more of what they want by helping you accomplish your goals, you have the power to motivate them to take action on your behalf.

People are also motivated to act by the fear of loss. In all its various forms, this fear is usually stronger than the desire for gain. People fear many things; financial loss, loss of health, anger/disapproval of others, loss of love and the loss of things they have worked diligently to accomplish. They fear change, risk and uncertainty because these are massive threats of a potential loss.

If you can show a person that they can avoid a loss of some sort by doing what you want them to do, you can influence them to take a particular action. The ultimate power of persuasion is offering an opportunity to gain and an opportunity to avoid loss simultaneously.

Open up your mind to how you can get people to want to do the things that you need them to do to reach your objectives.

“Persuasion is the art of getting people to do what you want them to do, and to like it.” ~Pres. Dwight D. Eisenhower

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Recommended Resource:
If you interested in persuasion there are a number of
books you may want to check out. One that I recommend
is Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini

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Beware of “Under” Dog: Defend Your Power at all Costs

Posted on 04 February 2008 by admin

Beware of “Under” Dog: Defend Your Power at all Costs
by Michael A. Thomas

I just got finished watching the Super Bowl, and I must say that I’m very disappointed while writing this post.

You guessed it; I was rooting for the Patriots.

I wasn’t around to see the Miami Dolphins accomplish “The Perfect Season” in ’72, and I would have liked to witness New England such a great feat in my lifetime.

What’s interesting is, at the beginning of the season, I didn’t care too much for Bill Belichick, Tom Brady, and company. In fact, I was originally quite indifferent about them. As the season progressed though, I became fonder of them. I began following them more and more, and even began to, mainly because of their “Pursuit of Perfection”. Winning every time out is no easy task, and is especially tough when everyone wants to have a career game against you.

Yet, for 18 games, the Patriots were unbeatable. They were always the topic of conversation. Opposing teams would painstakingly plan find any chinks in their armor. And of course, the underdogs of the football world set their sights on a new upset victim.

The New York Giants seemed to have found that elusive chink in the Super Bowl while artfully playing the underdog role. Eli Manning silenced all his critics, and joined his brother and father as champion quarterbacks.

Now I could very easily go into the David slaying Goliath cliche, but I think there is a bigger lesson to be learned. You must always be ready to defend your power and influence against the “underdogs” in your world.

In the game of power you have to always watch out for the “underdog”, because when you are at the top you either stay there, or your fall. And Scrappy is salivating at the mouth to take you down.

To properly defend against and underdog you need to do two things.

1. Hide your weaknesses. If you can’t hide them, minimize them as much as possible. Underdogs thrive from knowing your thumbscrews.

2. Keep your ear to the ground. You need to know what’s going on around you at all times. Keeping yourself in the social loop helps you maintain your power and influence, because it’s a lot harder to plot against you if you know about it.

Of course, once you will not always win; we all at some time take a loss in our life. You pulled out of a stock investment too late, you run into slumps in your love life. You lose that big client. Winners understand though, that losing is a part of the game and will bounce right back.

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