How to begin the Seduction Process: Eye Contact
by Michael A. Thomas

This question comes up quite a bit:

Should you approach a female from her blind-side or should you always approach at an angle where you can make eye-contact first??

Here’s my take on it:

You always want to try to look at women in her eyes before approaching her. It’s one of the first steps on the seduction game board. Sometimes though, you don’t always have that luxury. In those cases where she is in her own world, you have to somehow delve into her world.

How do you do that you say? You focus on the moment. That’s the easiest way to approach.

For example, if a woman’s in the store looking at cereal, she’s obviously thinking about the one she wants. An easy approaching would be asking her about that cereal. What she likes about it. The odds are in your favor for a few reasons:

1. Everyone’s favorite topic of conversation is what’s going on in their own life. If you ever notice, the best conversationalists are the people who are the best listeners. She to talk about herself. Let her.

2. Most men talk very randomly, using pick up lines or gimmicks. Now, that’s not to say you can’t be fun and spontaneous, but you want to always think about the INTERACTION first and foremost.

And always remember:

If she asks questions about you, she’s interested. You don’t need to read any body language signals or learn and NLP techniques to understand this concept (although those techniques are good). A lot of guys focus on making her laugh and obtaining the number. That means nothing. If you maintain eye contact, speak clearly, and in a smooth manner, you’re on the right track.